Pastoral Panel
PTC Ministry Conference 2012
Session 7
Moderator:
Peter Hastie
Panelists:
Bill Medley (Frankston)
Gerard vanderwert (Donvale)
Neil Chambers (Bundoora)
Don Elliot (Eltham)
Questions:
Peter Hastie to BM: What role has dependence on Prayer had in your ministry in what has been a difficult place to work?
BM: If God is sovereign, we should stir up our people to pray. I spent a lot of time praying for my personal holiness. A bad tree cant produce good fruit. I seek to be transformed as well as stirring up the people of God because God alone can give the increase.
PH to GV: How significant is it to Donvale’s work that it is in team ministry?
I was at Donvale for ten years before atony Bird joined me in 1998, out of necessity. Truth is enforced by being preached by the whole team. It prevents burnout. Family can get neglected when you work on your own. Having a team gives you people to discuss the issues with and provides continuity when someone leaves.
PH to NC: (Was at Ashfield for 10 years) What should be the absolute burden of a pastor?
I was convinced that the core of ministry is preaching and prayer. Nothing that has happened since has changed that conviction. God ony nurtures his peep through the preaching and teaching of the word of God. We need to supplement the Sunday preaching and reinforce it with small groups and one on one ministry.
PH to NC: Do you coordinate the growth groups with the preaching?
It’s a lot of work to produce Bible studies for people to use, but normally they keep connected with the preaching. Some groups diversify. It helps them to apply the message.
PH to DE: How has your overseas training in counselling (at RTS) effected your preaching and pastoral work?
(I graduated in 1985 and the PCV is very different)
I have a better grasp of people and how unpredictable people’s reactions can be. This bears on my sermon preparation. It has helped me to look at the Bible’s human focus, when I was more focused on getting theology out of it. I’ve learned that people resist personal application. I try to think about the less mature person at church and how to preach to them. I’ve become more interested in the process of communication. We should get rid of the cursive “we” and put in “you” and “I”. I change the structure and length of my sermons so people don’t get into listening ruts. When I came back from RTS, I preached at Arrarat and they said, “If that’s what your counselling did for your preaching, it was well worth the expense.” A man at Eltham Said he found it hard to get up in the morning to hear me preach. We covenanted to meet every few weeks to discuss past sermons. I couldn’t have done that before.
PH to NC: Would you like to share some thoughts on application in preaching?
Look at John Chapman’s Setting Hearts on Fire and Haddon Robinson’s Bibkical Preaching. Unless you apply, you haven’t preached. You can never be too direct. It is possible to be over-specific and not leave room for God.
Adam Humphries to BM or GV: Exiting into a parish, what would you do different or try.
BM: I’m the new guy. Because I’m new, I haven’t been effectively discipling.
GV: There were big problems in the parish. John Ellis had had a hard time there. They didn’t want an exit student and were happy to have a home missionary. They finally decided to accept me. My training was very inadequate. There were a couple of wise people in the congregation who at went for advice. Sme people left because of the preaching. Other new people came. It was very different, but it was in the process of growing myself. The first thing I did was to start a fortnightly prayer meeting. It was prayer where God intervened in that situation.
PH to NC and DE: What must a new minister do?
NC: You must do what God has called you to do: labour to present everyone perfect to Christ. It is only his word that will bring his people to himself and enable them to live fruitful lives which will bring glory to him. You’ll want to get to know people, so you’ll visit them and get to know the area.
DE: In my first year, with 3 centres and 200km round trip, I was lead to concentrate my efforts in the spiritually dead area. I should have been encouraged by the living part of the work.
Peter Stanton: With all your responsibilities, how do you manage your time to do proactive ministries to evangelise people?
GV: I use mornings to prepare and afternoons for visitation, unless I have to. Get into a pattern. Let your people know what it is.
BM: Dunno. It’s impossible. The exit guys, you’re in for a shock. Just pray and seek the Lord. It’s a major problem for me. I still don’t compromise on the amount of time I pray.
NC: I like talking through ideas. We tak about our strategic area. It depends on how you run your session. I see my session as coworkers. Most of our substantial discussion is about direction. We’ll devote mornings to that. I find it hard to access people. If I were to visit in the afternoon, I’d only see one of my men. I visit people in the mornings before they go to work. As I lose stamina, I don’t visit so much on Saturdays and Sundays. I find that more than than 4 evenings out a week puts stress on what is going on at home.
DE: We want another worker at Eltham so that we can have more ministry evenings. The other things I’ve been doing outside the church have slowed Eltham down. It has cost the local congregation. W do have to be involved in the wider work of the church. Helpfully we’ll recover from that.
Andrew Satchell: How do you set your day off?
DE: I take Monday off, but I’m thinking of taking another day when I’m fresher.
NC: I’m struggling. I aspire to Mnday, mostly because that’s the day my wife has off. Now my children are grown, I need time on Saturday or Sunday to see them. I basically take time off when I can. It confuses the congregation and the wife. I’m trying to stay in touch with those important members of my family.
GV: I take Monday off, as does my wife. Seem guys have Saturday off because they have kids. I spend most of Saturday in the study, with some in the garden but with my mind still in the study. Having time off is crucial. It’s not unusual for us to have coffee with church people on our day off.
BM: My day off is determined by my family, so it’s Saturday. I don’t panic at the end of the week, I panic at the start.
PH to NC: As someone who has worked in the medical field, what are the long term effects of not taking a break?
You’ll grow old and die. It depends if you enjoy your work. On my day off, I like to read my Bible and commentaries. We should all exercise. It depends on the quality of your relationships too. There’s a difference between working hard and dealing with conflict. It’s the things you can’t solve that wear you down.
Steve Woods: Have any of you gone to a congregation where the predominate culture is elderly and how did you attract younger families?
GV: There were a few younger people, but not many. If everyone has the attitude that there must be something already there, we’d get nowhere. It took a while, I believe in long term ministry. Nothing is achieved in 3 years unless God really pours out his blessing.
BM: there was one family at Frankston when I started there. I wanted not get them on board with a mission that not one of his sheep will be lost. They’d been praying before I got there. I spoke to them abou that they were going to do if a whole bunch of new people turned up there. I told them to was going to preach as if the place was filled with unsaved people. Pray. God is sovereign.
Ian Hutton to GV: How do you overcome favouritism?
GV: I don’t think it’s perceived as favouritism.
NC: Have real relationships with people in your congregation. Paul says, we shared with you our selves. You will relate more with some people than others.
DE: Do not take the advice that you should not have friends in your congregation. Paul’s role was to be mother and father to them. These people are the only family my kids have ever known.
Ian Hutton: How do you manage doing two sermons a week?
BM: Because of my abilities, I can’t do the same quality of sermon morning dan evening. I believe that the Lord has given us this day to serve him. I will at latest have God’s people worshipping rather than not. It’s worth it to do something lesser just to keep the doors open at night.
NC: For some years now, we’ve repeated the morning service. Our people are busy. We want people to invite people to lunch and spend time relating to their non-Christian friends. Often it’s the only days they have now.
DE: We a format where we did the extra stuff in the evening with interaction. It was always just the hardcore regulars. Now we do discipleship training courses scattered throughout the evenings.
Toby McIntosh : What do you do about poor attendance and lack of committment?
NC: To help with pastoral care, we take a roll every Sunday. There’s not social or economic benefit of belonging to Bundoora. We get 65-75%. It’s not very good. We’re grappling with what to do with those results. What’s driving us was having a person associated with us found dead in his bed 7 days after he died.
GV: The team can keep tabs. We don’t usually follow up unless they haven’t shown for 3-5 weeks.
BM: It’s a major problem for us. It can have 50 people away, last week it was 35. We don’t want to give up on a week person. I meet with the group and ministry leaders every m onto and am trying to get stronger Christians to take one person to follow up on and seriously connecting with them. We’ve made a start.
Brad Georges: Could you share with us how you’ve cultivated small group prayer life?
DE: We set up growth groups and at one stage had 75% in them, though this has dropped as we have grown. Once a term, we meet for prayer. People come with a verse about God, which we pray about, then ministries. We don’t pray so much for people.
NC: We also use growth groups. We have a monthly prayer meeting which needs to be rejuvenated. People find Saturday morning hard. W encourage people to pray through the directory. We’ve used prayer triplets. We’re about to being encouraging people to not only read the Bible one to one, but also to pray.
GV: We get 4 or 5, maybe a dozen, at 7am on Saturday morning. Every connect group has a prayer time. We tried praying before the service on Sunday morning, but that’s come and gone. We out out a church directory with people assigned to a day of the week so that people pray for each other.
BM: We have a prayer meeting before the morning serivce, and I pray with the elders before the evening service. Our focus in our groups is kingdom-focused.
PH thank you for your wisdom.