Overcoming the Superman Syndrome
PTC Ministry Conference
Session 10
David Jones
Tony Bird: I note the title and am amused that when you buy a child’s Superman suit at a toy store, it comes with a manufacturer’s note: This product is sold as a toy only. It does not enable the wearer to fly. Sometimes I think young men leave the college with a degree and expect to fly, but that isn’t the case.
Deuteronomy 13:1-5
Jude 8-10
While travelling by plane, Cassius Clay (Muhammad Ali) was once told by a stewardess to put on his seatbelt. He retorted, “Superman don’t need no seatbelt!” to which the stewardess said, “and Superman don’t need no airplane! Put on your seatbelt please.”
Ministers can fall prey to Superman Syndrome or the Messiah Complex.
1. The symptoms
A. The most obvious symptom is the desire to leap tall buildings. I think I we need ministers with Big Hairy Audacious Goals. That’s healthy. We need dreamers and schemers.
Arriving early to a moderator’s dinner when the Tasmanian assembly met at Devonport, I asked someone at the restaurant if I was in the right place. she said, “It’s the one for the Pedestrian Church, isn’t it?”
We need to ask big things from God band attempt big things for God. William Booth, speaking to his granddaughter said, “Your best is not good enough. With God you can do better than your best.” Interview of Anne Booth with Michael Parkinson.
You have to root it in the Scripture and take your people along with you. I think that is one mistake I made at St John’s when the whole church planting thing started.
B. Heroic Problem Solving
When we see a struggling cause, we want to get in and fix it. We don’t see that God has other people that he can use.
Wikipedia definition of the Messiah Complex
We take on the role of God in people’s lives. We think we can fix everybody’s problems. We think we ha speak that weekend or people won’t come back to the church.
C. 100%ism
Broughton Knox warned his students against the problem of 100%ism; we think we have to be seen attempting everything. We are tempted to skimp on the core pastor responsibilities of prayer and preaching because that hasn’t seen. (See also, Peter Brain in
D. People Pleasing
Paul said he faced struggles, but he didn’t just say what people wanted to hear.
E. A Full-blown Messiah Complex
These guys start to believe their own publicity. They think they have a direct line to heaven. They’re starting to work on instincts and promptings. Tozer, “A true leader is one who has no desire to lead, but is forced to lead by the inward pressure of the Holy Spirit.” they’re cult leaders. They claim to have direct revelation from God, Deuteronomy 13:1-5.
2. The Reasons
Why does this happen?
A. Inferiority/superiority complex
Often it is the result of an inferiority complex and low self esteem. We have to prove ourselves.
After Lloyd Jones’ death, Ian Murray gave a moving account at the Banner of Truth Conference. In the time running up to his death, DMLJ wasn’t able to speak for a time. Murray said it must be hard for him not to be able to preach. DMLJ got very angry. He said, Do you think I’ve lived to preach?
B. A wrong understanding of Christian life/ministry
Dying to self is not killing yourself. This is not what it means to take up your cross. Dying to self may mean having to delegate. We have to accept that others can do a better job than we can, so we hog it allot ourselves. Wife convince ourselves that we’re being spiritual in this and functioning in the gifts that God has given us.
We can think we become Godly by doing a Godly things. Ministry becomes a path to Godliness instead of the fruit of Godliness.
C. Consequences
1. Fatigue
It is a recipe for burnout. “Superman don’t need a day off.” We repress our needs for rest and fun. We don’t give time to spiritual growth.
2. Frustration
This grows into frustration. We start to hate those we are ministering to. The joy of the Lord is our strength, but it often ebbs away with anger taking its place. Paul describes the Philippians as his hope and joy, Philippians 4:1. When we become Superman, we become resentful. It is a downward spiral which can pull you down to hell. If you are tempted to say Raca (or Rack off!), you are in danger of hell. Of Richard Sibbs it was said, heaven was in him before he was in heaven. It can be the same with hell. If you are taken over by resentment, it can sweep you away. The way we do ministry can make us contentious. Outwardly, we can still go through the routine, but inwardly we can dry up. If you keep going like this, you will crash.
‘Trying to be more than you are results in being less than you could be.’ it is tempting to Want to be like Whitfield, getting up at 4am to pray. You’ve got to be you. You’ve got to be the man God made you.
How to stop being Superman:
1. Take off the cloak
Mark tells us that Jesus chose the 12 to be with him. It wasn’t that that was all the room he had in his minibus. He chose 12 men to be with him. He has 3 special friends who he took everywhere, Peter James and John. They were his special friends. Even in that circle, he had his best friend, the disciple who Jesus loved, John.
I’m losing my best friend. For 15 years, the Reformed minister at Kingston, Brian Barstra and I have met for prayer. Heirs moving to Sydney.
Jesus needed friends and I hope you don’t think you’re more spiritual that Jesus.
2. Place a priority on nurturing your relationship with God
With the help of God, I dared to preach the Gospel to you. I without me you can do nothing.
3. Open yourself up to others.
We try to disguise ourselves as Superman, but we need to show people we are Clark Kent. Invite people in. Receive as well as give. Paul wants to be mutually encouraged by the people at Thessalonica, I Thessalonians 2.
Jesus stood in the line of sinners waiting to be baptised. He identified himself with sinners, those that he has come to save. Heaven opens and a voice is heard from heaven, ‘That’s my boy.’ “This my son in whom I am well pleased.” Jesus needed that encouragement from his father
When did you last encourage someone? How many people are struggling for lack of encouragement?
4. Lighten up.
It’s not your job to save the world. Jesus said, come to me you who labour and are heavy laden. Take my yoke. Upon You, for my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” are you labouring? Whenever I come to a place of ministry, I pray, “Jesus, I can’t do this on my own. Let’s do it together.”
Not even the archangel Michael took to himself what wasn’t him. Disputing with Satan over Moses, he said, the Lord rebuke you.
It is God who justifies. Who is it who condemns? Jesus died and rose again.
Still today, fools rush in where angels fear to tread, playing God.
You didn’t die for your people. It’s not your job to defeat Satan. Its Jesus’ job. Be content to leave the fighting to him.
Tony Bird: This is Biblical kryptonite for the Superman Syndrome:
Recognise you’re human. The joy of the Lord is your strength. Learn to receive, not just give. Remember that Jesus only is the Saviour.